Tuesday, May 31, 2011

Shamelessly Plagiarizing (Plugging) Kristen Lamb

Not that she needs it…

Kristen Lamb is my new hero. I heard about her and her social marketing book for writers, We Are Not Alone (WANA) on a Bob Mayer online course I recently took (Bob is not too shabby either).

As soon as I bought the book, the buzz started. Or maybe it had already started and I just noticed it. Kristen Lamb this, Kristen Lamb that. Suddenly everyone was talking about Kristen Lamb. And it's no wonder. We Are Not Alone is awesome.

For maybe a year or two (or three) now, I've been baffled by Facebook and Twitter, wondering what I was supposed to do with them and how they could possibly help me my writing career. In WANA, Kristen explains everything I needed to know in an entertaining style that makes it painless and fun.

I was so taken by her approach to social networking, that when Tamara LeBlanc mentioned Kristen's blog, I had to stop by.

So much good stuff!

One of the funniest articles Kristen has written is called, Twitter Tuesday–Twintroverts & Twextroverts.

In this article (as elsewhere), Kristen declares herself to be an ENFP (Extroverted Intuitive Feeling Perceiver). Maybe that's why I connect with her. I am an INFP (Introverted Intuitive Feeling Perceiver). So close and yet so far.

I won't go into the NFP part, but I must say that I am most definitely a Twintorvert and have been mystwified and even twerrified of Twitter (sorry, Kristen’s post does that to you) for a long time.

Kristen claims, “The beauty of Twitter is that human interaction is on YOUR terms, and I find that often transforms the shyest introvert into a wild Twitter party animal.” I don't know about that.

Remembered the beast in the old Bugs Bunny cartoons? You know, the hairy monster that was so scary until he looked into the camera and said, "People? Awwwww!” And then he ran away and hid?

That's me. Well, I hope not the hairy monster part.

And yet, I need human interaction. Don't we all? The good part is that I've always been better at expressing myself in written form than face-to-face.

So after reading WANA, I held my breath, signed up, logged in, and began socializing with my new friends. And it wasn't that bad. In fact, it was downright fun. It's great reading about everyone's doings, giving encouragement, drooling over pictures of the cutest pets in the world.

And now? I've fallen in love with Facebook, and often get sucked into its time warp. I've even done a bit of Twittering. But I find it hard to keep up both every day, what with writing projects, contests to enter, Petit Fours and Hot Tamales (my wonderful group blog) to keep up with, etc. etc. It isn't easy to carve out the time from the little slice of time I have.

In a recent post, Bob Mayer said the number one key to self publishing success is consistency. Thanks, Bob. Well, I guess he's right. But persistence can lead to consistency, can't it?

One thing we can all be consistent about is getting back up on our horse when we fall off. Whether that's the  social networking horse, or the writing every day horse, or the exercising horse, or any other personal or professional horse, uh, goal, we may have. It doesn't matter if we blunder once in awhile as long as we keep getting back in the game.

Kristen has convinced me that reaching out to others and building a community is well worth the time and effort.

Are you with me? If you are, take the social networking pledge.
Stand up, hold your hands in front of your heart and the sign of the hash tag (#), and repeat after me.

I solemnly swear to do my best to Tweet and Facebook and blog every day without fail. And if I miss a day, I will Tweet and Facebook and blog the next day. And the next after that. And the next after that. So help me, Google.

There's no going back now. Are you ready? Then get ready, get set, network!


  1. Great post Linsey!!! I LOVE Kristen Lamb. I started following her blog after I read it mentioned on Bob's blog (go figure...grin...).

    I'm working my way through We Are Not Alone in my spare time and also bought Are you There Blog, It's me Writer. Great info and I can't stress enough how easy it is because it is geared towards exactly what a writer needs to do.

    Thanks for posting this.


  2. Happy to be of service, Tami. Those are both great books. I need to go back and review WANA. I read it really fast, because I just HAD to, LOL. I'm going to be purchasing AYTBIMW (Kristen's Blogging book) very soon.

  3. Love the oath! Some days it's difficult to work everything in, isn't it?

    Here's something to blog about: I'm gifting you with the Versatile Blogger Award. Check out my blog post today for info and directions for claiming your award.

  4. Thanks, Carol - I mean, Annie. :) I'm heading right over there.

  5. I keep up with Facebook and Twitter and blogging just fine; it's READING other people's blogs that I get behind on - lol! Anyway, I am finally caught up on all your posts and you are doing a great job here. I love Kristen Lamb, too - love her book about social networking, need to check out the one about blogging, too. Keep up the good work!

  6. Thanks, Pam. Yes, it's sooo hard to keep up with everyone's blog. There is so much good stuff out there. And each one tends to have links to other blogs, and another blog and another... In fact, I've had about 35 browser windows open. I'm starting to close them (I keep links in a list - need to do a mash-up soon, LOL.)

    And I need to head over to your blog soon http://pamasberry.blogspot.com, as well as Christine's! http://verandaview.blogspot.com